<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Where I&apos;m At · Blog</title><description>Honest writing on burnout, recovery, and reinvention for working professionals.</description><link>https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/</link><language>en</language><item><title>The show I would not have taken seriously, and what it actually gave me</title><link>https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/blog/ted-lasso-burnout-recovery/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/blog/ted-lasso-burnout-recovery/</guid><description>I found Ted Lasso in recovery, not during burnout. It did not fix anything. It kept me company, and it showed me what I had not been giving myself.</description><pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Reinvent</category></item><item><title>Rest is not something you can aim at</title><link>https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/blog/rest-is-not-something-you-can-aim-at/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/blog/rest-is-not-something-you-can-aim-at/</guid><description>Rest matters, but &quot;I want to stop feeling like this&quot; is a goal you cannot act on. Dr Ben Searle on using your values and strengths to rebuild.</description><pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Reinvent</category></item><item><title>The burnout nobody sees: why you can be burning out and still getting five-star performance reviews</title><link>https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/blog/high-functioning-burnout-nobody-sees/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/blog/high-functioning-burnout-nobody-sees/</guid><description>You&apos;re still delivering. Still performing. So why does something feel permanently off? High-functioning burnout is the kind nobody sees coming.</description><pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Recognise</category></item><item><title>The real reason so many people won&apos;t take the sick leave they know they need</title><link>https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/blog/why-people-dont-take-sick-leave-burnout/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/blog/why-people-dont-take-sick-leave-burnout/</guid><description>Most people who need to stop already know it. The reason they don&apos;t take the leave isn&apos;t ignorance. It&apos;s what taking it would say about them.</description><pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Recognise</category></item><item><title>You don&apos;t have to go back the same person</title><link>https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/blog/dont-go-back-the-same-person-after-burnout/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/blog/dont-go-back-the-same-person-after-burnout/</guid><description>The conversation about returning to work after burnout is usually about logistics. Nobody asks: do you actually want to go back as the same person who left?</description><pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Reset</category></item><item><title>You built your whole identity around your career. Burnout just made that visible.</title><link>https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/blog/burnout-career-identity-crisis-reinvention/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.whereimatcommunity.com/blog/burnout-career-identity-crisis-reinvention/</guid><description>&quot;Who am I if I leave this job?&quot; isn&apos;t a career question, it&apos;s an identity question. Burnout is what forces it up. Here&apos;s how to sit with it.</description><pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Reinvent</category></item></channel></rss>